Tamar, Kandi, and Loni: Shade, Secrets & a Whole Lotta Side-Eyes—With NeNe Stirring the Pot From group chats gone ghost to a “Big Back Cadillac” drive-by, let’s get into the real reason Tamar’s still not holding hands with Kandi Burruss or Loni Love—and why NeNe Leakes might just be the bone collector of the year. Tamar Braxton and Kandi Burruss: A Complicated History Whew, chile—where do we even begin ? Tamar and Kandi’s relationship is like reheated leftovers: never quite the same and always leaving you with heartburn. Things went left, right, and completely off the GPS back during their time on The Great Xscape Tour . Allegedly, Tamar felt some type of way when Kandi acted like she was doing her a favor by letting her and Vince tag along on the tour. Kandi, on the other hand, claimed it was business, not besties. Fast forward a few years and it’s still not giving sisterhood. Now Tamar is on The NeNe Leakes Show talking about how she doesn’t even have beef w...