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When Supporting Black Businesses Gets Complicated: The Chicken Man Situation


When Supporting Black Businesses Gets Complicated: The Chicken Man Situation

Let’s talk about it—because pretending not to see it doesn’t help anybody.
What happened with the chicken man is honestly disappointing, and not in the way people think. This isn’t about the food. This isn’t even really about him. It’s about how quickly a good thing can turn messy when money, access, and poor decisions get involved.
For anyone who’s been around, the chicken man has always come off as cool. Consistent. Minded his business. Served the people. No extra attitude, no unnecessary drama—just food and vibes. That’s why so many people showed up ready to support.
Then came the $30 charge just to get in.
Let that sit for a second.
Thirty dollars before you even buy food.
Now here’s where people start feeling played. We’re constantly encouraged to support Black-owned businesses—and many of us genuinely want to. We show up, post, tag, spend, and bring friends. But support isn’t supposed to feel like a penalty fee. It shouldn’t feel like you’re being taxed just for loyalty.
This situation feels less like a community decision and more like a building-owner problem. And that distinction matters. From what people are saying, the issue doesn’t seem to be the chicken man’s character or intentions—but whoever controls that space. Whoever decided access should come with a luxury price tag. That choice alone changed the whole energy.
And here’s the hard truth: when support starts feeling forced, people pull back.
Not because they don’t care. Not because they don’t want to see Black businesses win. But because nobody wants to feel hustled while trying to help.
The saddest part is that moments like this don’t just hurt one vendor—they hurt trust. They make people hesitant the next time they hear “pull up and support.” They create side-eyes instead of excitement.
Supporting Black businesses should feel empowering, not exhausting.
This could’ve been a win. A community moment. A celebration of good food and local success. Instead, it turned into a lesson on how quickly optics matter and how decisions made behind the scenes can overshadow the person actually doing the work.
I still think the chicken man is a cool guy. That hasn’t changed.
But whoever owns that building?
That decision was enough to turn people off—and that’s the part that needs to be addressed.
Because support is mutual. And once it feels one-sided, people start keeping their wallets—and their energy—at home.

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